Re: Too Grounded 2014-11-18
Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2014 10:06 am
The good thing about all of this is that once M gets her head on straight, she'll be in a better place to help Calista. To help anyone for that matter.
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Shelly started doing that regarding Justin when she came back from the Time Forest. Then she stopped, used her 80,000 years of wisdom and self knowledge, and basically said "That's stupid. That's an old mind game. I'm not going to play that anymore."Dave wrote:And, sometimes, "They don't deserve to have to put up with somebody as screwed up as I am" can be a form of cop-out, dressed up as self-sacrifice. It can be an excuse "not to deal" - a way to just walk away from our mistakes rather than go back and clean them up. This isn't always true, of course... but sometimes...
I would wait and see what happens next. There are an enormous number of directions in which this situation could develop; you don't want to bail because you think the plane is crashing, only to see it flying merrily onward while you're left behind.Timotheus wrote:
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I realize it's not my call as it's not my story, but this has caused some rather severe mental stress and I find myself no longer in Confusion Corner but rather standing on the curb outside waiting for the bus to I Don't Want To Know Anymore. The question now is do I get on the bus or stick around awhile longer?
Why so? There was apparently some manipulation behind the scenes to get Shelly and Justin together, which Phix at least knew of if was not directing; but nothing to show the same happened with Monica and Kevin, or is happening with Monica and Jet.jwhouk wrote:...
Phix is gonna be pissed.
That isn't what Monica said. It sounds that way but it isn't. She had things to tell him about herself. Things she had to share to lay the groundwork for what she is doing, ending their relationship. That is all. There is no dominance involved by this. It is apparent Kevin listened, understood, and didn't blow a gasket. Getting mad by Kevin is the worst thing to do. Keep it on a rational level and just let it flow. That is what he did. Kevin understood a lot more than Monica gave him credit for.Strawberrycocoa wrote:I'm a little disappointed in Kevin for taking a conversation that sounds like, "I am going to talk and you don't get to say anything. For God only knows how long, my fucking you has been hate-fucking." with what seems to be an overabundance of calm. That's not being understanding, that's being a pushover.
But then again Kevin's been such a passive non-presence in the story, I'm not really surprised either.
Bye, Kevin. You had a great goatee.
You're despicable!Atomic wrote:Does Monica have any room left to grow? Any possibility? Yes, and we now have another plot to follow! Light bulb vs battery perhaps?
no, I'd be saying, " Where did THIS come from?"illiad wrote:gawd sake peeps... If this were a RL friend, would you be so damning???
far too brief an answer for all that stuff... wait to see tomorrow...jwhouk wrote:no, I'd be saying, " Where did THIS come from?"illiad wrote:gawd sake peeps... If this were a RL friend, would you be so damning???
The story of Wapsi Square assumes there's some truth to the ancient mythologies of mankind. It's been remarked on by better people than I that the pantheons reflect our own strengths and shortcomings, and the give and take of the social nature of power.captnq wrote:1. Having read the story line from the beginning, I would actually say this was a long time over due.
2. It's actually mandatory from a writer's point of view.
Monica, the character, is suffering from superman syndrome. Which is to say, Monica is too powerful. She's become boring. She cannot die. She can teleport anyone or anything anywhere. She can climb in your head and unleash your demons. Seriously, how could this girl ever lose at anything?
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And before you start to go on about how it wouldn't be that simple, let me point out that Monica has virtually unlimited power and access to infinite knowledge. Give me that, and I would become exactly what I always wanted to be...
A hero.
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Of course, one person's view of perfection is not the same as everyone else's...
She's also been described as a damaged soul, so yes, the Tar and the supermodel life has certainly bent her behaviour into unsympathetic shapes. But one thing that was striking me leading into this was that her five-Manhattan bravery was so that she could speak the truth. Self-serving truth, sure, but she even admits that up front!Jay-Em wrote:...M still has quite a bit of growing-up to do, and I think thatJet is NOT a good influence, because she's álso extremely self-absorbed and ego centric. Monica knóws this, and -again- chooses someone that will only worsen those traits. (Tbh, i think Tar just úsed that unpleasant trait of Jet to its advantage.)
Heck! Monica even alluded to Jet's actual character, mirroring her own, when she suddenly popped-in somewhere, just expecting Monica to come along at the snapping of her fingers. That hasn't changed afa I am concerned....
I have to admit that, despite her horrible experiences in her youth, I find Jet a véry unsypathetic (?) character...
sheah, as if that would happen in RL.. "hey forget about M, bud likes you..." in RL you would be heading for hospital soon after...AnotherFairportfan wrote: I am quite willing to accept that a Kevin/Bud hookup would be a good thing (if not necessarily a Good Thing) for at least two of the three directly involved in the M/K/B triangle.
NO, she is only as powerful as your worst fear.. If that happens to be 'dropped into lake tahoe', not fatal..captnq wrote: Monica, the character, is suffering from superman syndrome. Which is to say, Monica is too powerful.
NO, she DOES die.. but then she re-appears as she was just after she got the spike in her head..captnq wrote:She's become boring. She cannot die.
NO, she can only teleport to some place she *knows*captnq wrote:She can teleport anyone or anything anywhere.
everyone has demons - they only stay inside their person.. I think Tina's involvement could do something about that though??..captnq wrote:She can climb in your head and unleash your demons.
NO again!! she cannot modify the way golems work, that Mayah was able to do...captnq wrote:And before you start to go on about how it wouldn't be that simple, let me point out that Monica has virtually unlimited power and access to infinite knowledge.
hey I know some EMOs and PUNKs that love doing that, It keeps them together!! very much the BDSM scene...Yamara wrote: Smoking Mirror is saying I FUCK HIM LIKE I HATE THE WORLD
I respect your frustration, Omrikon. But, from where I sit I see things in a somewhat different way.Omrikon wrote:I'm with Radio365 on this one. Today's post just reinforces my frustration with Paul's story choices as of late, along with the feeling that he so strongly hates involving any men in his stories that he took the first opportunity he could to replace Kevin with a female model that was hardly ever central to the story. I had truly hoped that Monica finally becoming the Jaguar Girl and having dealt with her demons would have granted her some perspective and wisdom, especially about herself, but this last week has obliterated any semblance of that belief. Her excuses here are a selfish cop-out to justify base lust at the expense of a relationship that is clearly much healthier than what she's getting into here. Especially since the last time this was even brought up was OVER A YEAR AGO, making it effectively ancient history for a daily comic strip.
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Obviously this is all moot musings. Paul's characters are his to write and control as he sees fit, and I seriously doubt anything said here on a forum will affect his decisions one way or another. But I frankly needed to vent because this was a sudden and ungrounded change to a developed story and relationship that reeks more of desperation and selfishness than creativity and depth. I have strong suspicions that Paul simply found Georgette a more enticing character to draw than Kevin and made an executive excuse to place her in that role after forgetting about it for over a year.
We don't know yet that he's taking it well, just that he showed a compassionate face to Monica. We may hear a lot more about his reactions, what with Alan being with Jin and other connections. I expect that to be interesting.Omrikon wrote:Monica tells Kevin and he takes it BADLY. You get some insight into HIS personal demons which Monica never noticed because she's been off on her adventures for god knows how long. Maybe it ends the same way as it did here but at least Kevin stops being such a one-dimensional character.
Omrikon wrote:Her excuses here are a selfish cop-out to justify base lust at the expense of a relationship that is clearly much healthier than what she's getting into here. Especially since the last time this was even brought up was OVER A YEAR AGO, making it effectively ancient history for a daily comic strip.
If you're inclined to forget the part where Georgette and Monica bonded after the Jaguar Girl butchered the soul of the rapist hiding in Jet's mind, then I'd say this tale isn't for you, no.Omrikon wrote:I can't say I really remember Georgette's story or why she's relevant, but this came out of left field for me.
Yeah, well "Kevin" is no longer her safe word. Safe words are for third parties' well being too, y'know.illiad wrote:hey I know some EMOs and PUNKs that love doing that, It keeps them together!! very much the BDSM scene...Yamara wrote: Smoking Mirror is saying I FUCK HIM LIKE I HATE THE WORLD
I am not into it myself, but my best mate and his GF cannot live without it!! he has changed his garage into a dom cavern..![]()
My SigO would likely be angry at M dismissing Kevin instead of trying for a more inclusive family with both him and Jet. She might even say that Tina's advice was way off. We're crazy polytheists and would actually argue with these untamed people as we felt was necessary.illiad wrote:gawd sake peeps... If this were a RL friend, would you be so damning???
jwhouk wrote:no, I'd be saying, " Where did THIS come from?"