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Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 9:52 am
by Dave11
Julie wrote:
ShneekeyTheLost wrote:
Mark N wrote:To me it is a proof that legal actions an ethical conduct are two VERY different things.
You want ethics? Consult a priest (or other religious authority figure). Laws judge morals, not ethics.
:? That seems a little backwards from my understanding of morals vs ethics. Maybe my perspective is a little off because of my job... We are required to have continuing education courses regularly in Ethics (and goodness knows I've seen college courses on Business Ethics), but we're not expected to take courses on Morals. I always thought that morals had to do with your socio-religious stance (personal beliefs and character); whereas, ethics have to do more with acting appropriately within a given social system.

Maybe Mark N should have said "To me it is proof that legal actions and moral conduct are two very different things"? Or maybe this situation is neither ethical nor moral, but it's still legal (which is creepy as all hell).
Tom Clancy wrote:When you have to write your ethics rules down, you've already lost

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 10:24 am
by Jabberwonky
Dave11 wrote:
Julie wrote:Maybe Mark N should have said "To me it is proof that legal actions and moral conduct are two very different things"? Or maybe this situation is neither ethical nor moral, but it's still legal (which is creepy as all hell).
Tom Clancy wrote:When you have to write your ethics rules down, you've already lost
What does that say about the company I work for that makes us take an Ethics 'refresher' every 4 months? :?

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 11:19 am
by bmonk
Julie wrote:
ShneekeyTheLost wrote:
Mark N wrote:To me it is a proof that legal actions an ethical conduct are two VERY different things.
You want ethics? Consult a priest (or other religious authority figure). Laws judge morals, not ethics.
:? That seems a little backwards from my understanding of morals vs ethics. Maybe my perspective is a little off because of my job... We are required to have continuing education courses regularly in Ethics (and goodness knows I've seen college courses on Business Ethics), but we're not expected to take courses on Morals. I always thought that morals had to do with your socio-religious stance (personal beliefs and character); whereas, ethics have to do more with acting appropriately within a given social system.

Maybe Mark N should have said "To me it is proof that legal actions and moral conduct are two very different things"? Or maybe this situation is neither ethical nor moral, but it's still legal (which is creepy as all hell).
I'd say too:

Legal is a civil category: is it prohibited by law or not?
Ethics is a social category: how does the culture say you should act?
(It also includes the special limits on professionals, since one definition of a profession is that it has special rules on what is allowed.)
Moral is a religious category: how does your faith say you should act?

None of these are identical.

Some laws are simply for good order: why drive on the right, when driving on the left would do as well? Because we need to choose one or the other, and it doesn't really matter which--as long as everyone follows the same rules!
Some laws are to enforce ethics or morals, such as laws against murder or theft, or laws on accounting, fraud, and other financial matters.
Some laws run counter to some ethical (or moral) standards, such as laws still on the books against marriage between people of different races, or against sodomy. Or, say, laws that allow, say, a politician to use the money given for his reelection for his own ends, even though the ethical thing is to use it only for campaigns.
And so on.

In a state with good laws, the gaps between legal and ethical (and moral) are as small as possible.

As for that Tom Clancy quote about writing ethics rules down, I agree, in part.
Ethics are principles we should follow, which means we need to know at least what is intended. But when you get too detailed, then you have lost the point.
I think ethical codes are better following the Roman model of law: to establish the general ideals, and then leave it to the magistrate or authority to determine how it applies to this situation (or shouldn't in a particular case, and then a dispensation is in order).
They are much more cumbersome using the English and American model, in which the legislator tries to cover every possible case within the law itself--which makes for complex laws that few really understand, inevitably leads to situations not covered, or conflicts with other equally detailed laws, and so on.

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:24 pm
by Fairportfan
Dave11 wrote:
ShneekeyTheLost wrote:Mind you, she could well be covering for him, insisting that she loves him and all that jazz when she's really sleeping with him to get a spot as a starter on the team (which wouldn't be rape if it was her idea rather than his, although it might qualify as prostitution depending on how you look at it).
This would technically fall under some Sexual Harassment statutes, IIRC.
On the part of which of them?

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:26 pm
by Dave11
Fairportfan wrote:
Dave11 wrote:
ShneekeyTheLost wrote:Mind you, she could well be covering for him, insisting that she loves him and all that jazz when she's really sleeping with him to get a spot as a starter on the team (which wouldn't be rape if it was her idea rather than his, although it might qualify as prostitution depending on how you look at it).
This would technically fall under some Sexual Harassment statutes, IIRC.
On the part of which of them?
Not 100% sure. I might have the wrong statue in mind, actually - If she was using the threat of revealing an inappropriate relationship to get some kind of perk, what does that fall under?

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 2:31 pm
by Dave
Dave11 wrote:
Fairportfan wrote:On the part of which of them?
Not 100% sure. I might have the wrong statue in mind, actually - If she was using the threat of revealing an inappropriate relationship to get some kind of perk, what does that fall under?
Extortion or blackmail.

Lots of issues here, most of which seem to boil down into "Was the sexual relationship freely entered into, by both parties" (with an acknowledgment that "freely entered into" is sometimes difficult to pin down, in cases where there is already an existing relationship between the two which has an asymmetrical power structure).

When it's not a relationship "between peers" there's quite a lot of opportunity for undue influence, pressure, expectations, or unfair "quid quo pro" to sneak in... and I think that's the reason why it's generally considered to be a Bad Idea to start intimate relationships under these circumstances.

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 3:05 pm
by Mark N
Julie wrote::? That seems a little backwards from my understanding of morals vs ethics. Maybe my perspective is a little off because of my job... We are required to have continuing education courses regularly in Ethics (and goodness knows I've seen college courses on Business Ethics), but we're not expected to take courses on Morals. I always thought that morals had to do with your socio-religious stance (personal beliefs and character); whereas, ethics have to do more with acting appropriately within a given social system.

Maybe Mark N should have said "To me it is proof that legal actions and moral conduct are two very different things"? Or maybe this situation is neither ethical nor moral, but it's still legal (which is creepy as all hell).
I was looking at ethical because any teacher (a high school coach is considered that I believe) that has a relationship outside of just friendship while the person is a student of theirs is violation most schools codes of ethics. Morality is on a different page. (Yes I know that he was not a High school teacher but to me the under 18 teams are still high school status)

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:58 pm
by Bookworm
Something to think about.

IF the father was taking photographs of a consenting pair of adults in flagrante delicto to be used as _evidence_, that's attempted blackmail. Or attempted 'child pornography' by the federal definition.

It sounds like there were some strings pulled, especially since I doubt the phone was actually destroyed; the guy probably even got it back almost immediately.

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 1:53 am
by NOTDilbert
Dave11 wrote:
Tom Clancy wrote:When you have to write your ethics rules down, you've already lost
I am SO TEMPTED to send this quote as an (anonymous) email to Administration during our annual accreditation training - which, of course, includes ethics. Anonymous, 'cause I want to change the world (or my company anyway), not lose my job.... 8-)

Re: "Sudden Snatching"?

Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 9:49 am
by Julie
bmonk wrote:Some laws run counter to some ethical (or moral) standards, such as laws still on the books against marriage between people of different races, or against sodomy. Or, say, laws that allow, say, a politician to use the money given for his reelection for his own ends, even though the ethical thing is to use it only for campaigns.
Or laws that prevent people from engaging in insider trading, but that also allow politicians who would also have access to inside information (i.e. a committee that is about to make a decision about which company will engage in a large government contract) to trade using that inside info without penalty. Not that I'm miffed about that or anything... [/end venting/thread hijack]