foilgirl82 wrote:Hi,
Using this one to stand for all the similar sentiments I've been reading for the past few days...
Yeah kitty-kat... Truth hurts.
Y'all must be smarter than I am, because I don't see this at all. It seems to me the things Nudge has been saying are pretty blatantly untrue. I think Phix cares a great deal for Monica and Shelley, at least. Maybe this is my dislike of Nudge coming through, but I always thought her "I just tell the truth" was cover for being... well, an asshole. If she's trying to make the point that Phix is afraid of getting close to people (which I believe to be true, and which Phix seems to have passed on to Shelley), there are several tacks she could've taken that wouldn't have her running for her life. Maybe she just can't help being malicious? I dunno, but that's been bugging me.
P.S. 1st post, hooray!
1st, Welcome ye faithful
Sure, Nudge's goading seems self-serving, be it somewhat suicidal. She míght, on a deeper level, relish the poking, but there's a lot more going on.
Nudge is a trickster, but is múch more about insights in oneself. Like most tricksters, she dishes-out deeper wisdoms, allthewhile pulling one's leg. Every trickster-story is about learning a man, or woman more about him/herself by (mis)using certain unpleasant characteristics of that person. It's up to the subject to learn from the experience.
That's the whole point.
Phix is stuck in her position as ApexPredator, and is not used to questioning her convictions. Even her "pacifism" is an unbudging truth to her.
What Nudge is doing, is using the ónly way to jolt Phix out of her arrogance. Phix isn't arrogant out of maliciousness, fár from it, but more out of an inate conviction she's right, because "might makes right"
Phix would nèver accept a tête a tête that questions her motives, despite the fact that it would mean a peaceful solution towards her hang-ups.
Nudge uses a sort of "confrontational therapy". It is especially developed to get a person to confront truth through letting his/her anger take over, and thusly letting it burn at the highest Setting, burning away áll layers of conscious and sub-conscious limits that hinder trúe insights and acceptance of the "Ich and Über-Ich" and their influence one one's self-image.
Only detail missing here, is Phix spitting-out her grievances. In thát part Nudge's approach is not working very well, given the mouth-foaming rage Phix is showing
Basically, Phix néeded to be confronted with the fact that her suave "librarian" persona, is but a shell, and that there is móre to the persona of "Phix".
Someone once said: Once You knów the beast inside well enough to point it out and keep down, thén, and ónly thén, can One be considered "civilized"
Ask ány veteran that has been in the thick of it. Those that came out fine, agreeable and, plainly sympathetic people, are thóse that have finally accepted the beast inside, and have made a conscious choice to néver éver let it out again.
A philosophy that can lead to gréat things! (Ask a modern-day German, and their refusal to get too deeply involved in international conflicts)
No, Nudge is fár from callous, or just "trolling". Nudge tries to catch two flies with one stroke. : Get Phix' rage to move her forward, while defending her friends, éven if it could mean a serious pounding.
"I make people look at themselves in a different way, even if they might not like it" (cannot quickly enough find the original quote though)
It's the way a góod therapist does his/her job. (I am from a family of psychologists & Psychiatrist, so I look at this whole Nudge vs. Phix, in a rather different light. I see the principles of good therapy at work here.)
Pfieuuuww! *wipes sweat from brow* looong story.. Sowwy..
