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Honey?, I got you something for your Birthday...
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Honey?, I got you something for your Birthday...
Yup. There's a very real risk of that in any situation like this, and especially since it's your brother involved. You've got one set of loyalties to your brother, another to your sister-in-law, you've got your own feelings about the situation getting mixed in. It could very easily turn into a terrible mess if you let yourself get pulled into it.TazManiac wrote:- I can not see how you might intercede, unless you really intercede- and that takes commitment, not only for your own actions and the results, but also for the simple and human reaction where the Boy Scout Coming to the Rescue gets all the blame.
Put up a serious firewall between you and their marriage. Period. Regarding a woman's kiss.. if you think it worth your while, just stare at her lips as you speak. Subconsciously, she will get the message... or she will notice and ask why you are looking at her mouth.Alkarii wrote: I still haven't been comfortable enough with a woman to ask if it's okay to try to kiss her.
2 to 1 the record will skip at the same scratch in the groove...Alkarii wrote:Well, apparently they argued for a while, then she did three shots of whiskey and wouldn't talk to him for a bit. He later apologized, so maybe he'll learn to not do this kind of thing again.
Vegas just called. Bets are off.Sgt. Howard wrote:2 to 1 the record will skip at the same scratch in the groove...Alkarii wrote:Well, apparently they argued for a while, then she did three shots of whiskey and wouldn't talk to him for a bit. He later apologized, so maybe he'll learn to not do this kind of thing again.
The problem is that he intended to. Without a change in attitude... that's not a good sign. The only way an open or poly relationship can work is if every party is completely open and honest. It's extremely difficult to maintain. I'd quietly distance yourself from this eventual drama sh*tstorm.Alkarii wrote:Yeah, I'm concerned he will, myself.
Still, he hasn't actually cheated on her, only tried setting it up.
Yup.GlytchMeister wrote:Wrong Barb.