Advice for a father
Posted: Sun May 03, 2015 7:01 pm
Greetings,
I am a long-time (5+ years) reader of Wapsi Square and come before you as a father with a conundrum. My daughter graduated college this weekend and badly needs help with her body image, clothing choices, and especially foundation garment choices. I don't know her measurements but she's definitely a D cup, maybe DD, and is a big "husky" girl. Her mother and I divorced and I wasn't in the picture as much as I'd have liked to be, which is one me. Her mother raised her in an evangelical Christian context and she came up with a very poor body image and no desire at all to dress well. I learned this weekend that she wears the same sports bra every day and it is over three years old. Everything is where it shouldn't be and it does absolutely nothing for her appearance.
She needs to go job hunting now in a professional career and I'm worried.
I want to help. Send her some of the websites I've discovered through Wapsi Square, etc. but have no idea how to go about this. We don't have the best communication and I haven't the faintest idea how to bring this up. To encourage her to go buy some nice bras that don't over enhance her appearance, but supoort everything and get it into the right place. She HATES bra shopping.
Help?
Thanks!
Ursus
I am a long-time (5+ years) reader of Wapsi Square and come before you as a father with a conundrum. My daughter graduated college this weekend and badly needs help with her body image, clothing choices, and especially foundation garment choices. I don't know her measurements but she's definitely a D cup, maybe DD, and is a big "husky" girl. Her mother and I divorced and I wasn't in the picture as much as I'd have liked to be, which is one me. Her mother raised her in an evangelical Christian context and she came up with a very poor body image and no desire at all to dress well. I learned this weekend that she wears the same sports bra every day and it is over three years old. Everything is where it shouldn't be and it does absolutely nothing for her appearance.
She needs to go job hunting now in a professional career and I'm worried.
I want to help. Send her some of the websites I've discovered through Wapsi Square, etc. but have no idea how to go about this. We don't have the best communication and I haven't the faintest idea how to bring this up. To encourage her to go buy some nice bras that don't over enhance her appearance, but supoort everything and get it into the right place. She HATES bra shopping.
Help?
Thanks!
Ursus